Most relationship books are written by therapists who spend all their professional time with unhappy couples. Susan Page wondered what she would learn by studying happy, thriving couples to see what they have in common. The result is a remarkable blueprint for successful relationships, a delicious and delightful read for any couple, and the best imaginable gift for any newlyweds.

Formerly titled Now That I’m Married, Why Isn’t Everything Perfect?, this wise and useful guide has gained extraordinary critical acclaim from the foremost experts in the relationship field, and has helped thousands of couples achieve more fulfilling relationships. Drawing on more than twenty years of couples’ counseling experience, Dr. Susan Page explains the eight essential traits of a thriving marriage.

Are you unable to communicate with your spouse? Are unresolved issues discouraging you? Are you frustrated that your partner won’t participate in solving your relationship problems?Good news!

You are not dependent upon what your partner does or doesn’t do in order to be happy. The cards are all in your hands as you provide Loving Leadership. This is NOT hard work; it’s a completely new approach to changing the atmosphere in your relationship marriage! This is a refreshing departure from most relationship books because you can do everything by yourself!

Spiritual Partnership differs from the Old Model of relationships in
two major ways:
1. Loving Actions replace communication as the primary tool for
problem solving and relationship enrichment.
2. In Spiritual Partnership, your focus shifts from your partner and your relationship to your own spiritual path. In every situation, you ask yourself, “If I were to behave in accord with my highest spiritual
values right now, what would I do?” The Eight Loving Actions described in this book are easy-to-learn answers to that question.

Among relationship books, this one is unusual and different! It will shift your consciousness!

In this classic, worldwide bestseller, Susan Page sweeps aside all the popular excuses for not being able to find a mate and zeros in on the real reasons most involuntary singles remain single: ambivalence, pseudo high standards, “BTN” relationships (better than nothing), and the “intimacy gap.” Page was one of the first to identify “commitmentphobia,” and her guide to confronting it remains the defining standard.

This beloved “bible” for singles was updated and reissued in 2002 in a new edition with a new preface. It has been translated into a remarkable 20 foreign languages and was the Number One best seller in Russia in 1994! (To see the Russian best seller list, click here.)

By reading this classic of relationship books you will learn

• How to defeat your hidden ambivalence and all your “excuses” for not finding love
• How to increase the flow of eligible singles through your life
• What to do when your standards are “too high” and you reject everyone you meet
• How to decide whether your relationship is a “BTN” (better than nothing)
• How to defeat “commitmentphobia”—in yourself or in your partner
• How to manage an “intimacy gap”
• How to overcome normal fears
• The seven essential steps for finding love